I just browsed through some magazines at home. One of which is the March 2013 issue of Candy Magazine. I suddenly came across an article, and I am sure He guided me to read this article. <3

We are infinite: every moment is a chance to change things for the better.

Like the time that boy broke your heart. 

Once a upon a time there was a girl who fell in love with a boy but he didn't feel the same way so he CRUSHED her heart under the heels of his worn-out Converse sneakers. This is not an uncommon story. But it did happen and it did wreck me in all the ways unrequited love often does.

Here's how great losers turn thing around: 

The heartbreak was an enormous loss. I had lost a friend, a confidante, a movie buddy, and someone I could do life with. But in the middle of that grief, I was given a gift: a chance to watch my friends rise up and help me heal. I had lost a romantic love, yet in my moment of desolation, I was spoiled with great amounts of unconditional love from the people closest to my heart. This gave me a backbone to stand up from the hurt.

Love redeemed me, reminded that I was BEAUTIFUL and WORTHY, and revolutionized my standards in boys. If the Converse-wearing drummer boy hadn't broken my heart, there are dreams I wouldn't have pursued. 

I love where I am right now and love who I am today. And if I had to be brutally honest with you. then I'd have to admit that it was a heartbreak that greatly shaped me. 

  

~Candy Magazine <3